Dildos: Usage, Types, and Safety Tips

‘Dildos are the original sex toy — and still one of the most versatile and underrated,’ says resident sex and relationships educator at So Divine, Debbie Bere. Sure, nowadays there are so many vibrators, nipple clamps, butt plugs and other exotic beside companions on the market — and they’re all great. But if you’re looking for a versatile sex toy (and you’re a fan of penetration, be it vaginal or anal), you might want to start with a dildo. Lifelike Lover Classic is made from high-quality TPE material, giving it a bendable consistency that’s easy to manipulate during play. The extra soft TPE finish also means the toy is great for people with sensitive sweet spots. Something else we loved about the Lifelike Lover Classic was the realistic design.

According to them, once posed in the right position, it held its shape pretty well during use. I’ve tried a lot of different dildos over the years – silicone, glass, metal, textured, small, and large – you name it! Although, I remember the struggle of finding my first ever dildo. I had no idea what size range to aim for or which materials were best. That’s why I’ve created the ultimate guide for picking one out! I’ve lined up the very best options on the market for you below.

Whether you use it by yourself or with a partner, it allows you to better explore and discover what can best work for you in the bedroom. While its main function is vaginal and anal penetration, some may use its length and features to stimulate the g spot or clitoris, in order to achieve different pleasure sensations. As long as you’re satisfied (like these fab customers) Vibrating Dildo, that is all that matters. These days, the possibilities of what you buy in the way of penetrative sex toys can seem daunting and endless.

The latter helps protect you from getting a urinary tract infection or a vaginal infection by making sure you’re not spreading bacteria from your butt to your urethra or vagina. Perfect for vaginal or anal use, solo play, or couples’ fun. Pair with lubricants and harnesses for even more exciting experiences. So, I’m really stoked how customizable this beginner dildo is. Our tester, Mike, tested out the Limba Flex M with his wife.

It also has a base that’s safe for anal and strap-on harness compatible. The Mustang is a dual-density VixSkin dildo and one of the best of its kind. It has a gentle curve and slightly pronounced head, with some realistic shape and vein details. Dual-density silicone is one of the best innovations of the sex toy world, and with skin-like VixSkin, Vixen Creations has it down to a science.

This is a great realistic-looking dildo with a vibrator in the shaft and all the features you would want from a dildo. The dual density with different materials is a great touch and one that I wish more would make. It’s cast with platinum-cured silicone which is the best material to use in realistic dildos since it feels like real skin. Other design tweaks like the tapered tip make LELO LOKI Wave easy to insert during anal play, even if you’re not the most experienced sex toy consumer. Strap-on dildos may be double-ended, meant to be worn by users who want to experience vaginal or anal penetration while also penetrating a partner.

We aim to cater to as many people as we can with our toy collections, so you’ll find lots of options for dildo newbies. If this is your first time trying this type of toy, you may want to start with small dildo toys, rather than diving straight in with giant dildos. It’s always best to take baby steps and explore your preferences first before you buy a dildo. Once you’ve mastered your first model, you can explore vibrating dildos or even double-ended ones if your partner takes an interest. Stick the toy’s suction base against a smooth , flat surface (like a shower wall) so you can access it on your own (and again, lube is your friend).